Thomas Shey
Legend
I don't buy from WotC. Haven't in a while for the most part. I far prefer smaller creators. But the game I play is still largely based on WotC's game, so there are plenty of relevant to me topics being discussed in the WotC 5e forums. I am lately trying to avoid 5.5 threads at least.
In some respects you're in a particularly bad spot because (and feel free to correct me) you want something pretty D&D adjacent, but in some respects that's harder to get players for than either the current edition of D&D, or games radically different from it. This tends to push you toward the current edition proper, which means you need to deal with the issues connected to its publishing to some degree or another, like it or not.